Just before we left for Greece I picked up a number of new book titles to read on the monster plane rides. One was most intriguing, The Narcissism Epidemic, written by Jean Twenge and Keith Campbell. Professors at San Diego State University. Over the years I have watched as we have coddled our children more and more in the name of building their self image. I remember as a parent always feeling a bit uneasy about this but not sure why. I mean why does every child on the little league team deserve a trophy even if they did not work hard or show up for over half of the games? I never have understood that? This is not what life is like. Then this book came along to help me put into perspective why I thought and still think this is a detriment for us as a people.
Did you know that today you can hire fake paparazzi to follow you around when you go out for a night on the town snapping photographs of your exploits. Then they will mount them on your own tabloid magazine cover. Not to mention the reality TV show my Sixteenth Birthday featuring a soon to be 16 year old blocking off her street to make room for the Hummer limousine to deliver her to her home just in time to step out onto the Red carpet. Honestly, have we gone absolutely crazy? While these are extreme, what about infant pacifiers filled with “Bling” while wearing a baby shirt that says “Supermodel” or “Chick Magnet.” We live in a culture of Narcissists. It is all about me, me and more me. Narcissists actually believe they are more intelligent than others, better looking, and could run the world more efficiently than anyone else. They actually believe that they "are special." They have a self imposed moral imperative to tell everyone else how to do what they are to do because they can do it better than the ones who are actually doing it.
I suggest that Americans love to love themselves. Our current culture rains enough narcissism to get all of us wet and chilled to the bone! So my encouragement as we enter into this season of giving thanks is simple: let’s all take off our rain coats soaked with the residue of our own narcissism and seek to do one thing: Be Grateful to God for all that we do have. How might we do this? First, fast from buying anything other than the basic staples of life. Second, worship every week not for what you can get out of the service or “that special feeling” but for who God is. Finally, train yourself to say “thank you” to God and others. Might we all try to live into these practical steps for grateful living and see how they might mold us a followers of Jesus’ radical way. Can you imagine? I can…..
I would love to hear you weigh in on this one???
